Friday, November 25, 2011

A reminder to myself

It's true that looks can be deceiving. You can't judge a book by its cover. But I also thought that innocent-looking people or people who are always judged positively, are really nice or OKAY, problem-free-sorta people, but I was definitely wrong. Not all are like that but only a few, and they are hard to find.

From my experience, it's the people who are often judged negatively, are the nicest and most thoughtful people. That's why we must choose our friends, bestfriends and partners carefully. Contoh macam nawal cakap ' yaya, kau dipersila kuruskan badan. Nak empire dress free tak?' hahahahaha

But then again, it's no fun to play safe all the time. It's always good to experience some hardship. Tak gitu kengkawan?


15 comments:

hazlynda kushairi said...

so true! walaupun aku hitam dan gila, kau tetap sayang aku kan kan kan? NIZAM, kau diam. tetibe. Aasim pun sayang aku kan ;P

cik yaya said...

kau hitam dan gila ke?tapi ko mix kan..gila tu mmg tak leh buat apa dah.tu aku mmg paham sesangat.

Nurulhuda|Adlie said...

adlie lagi hitam!

Nurulhuda|Adlie said...

aku hitam gak, occasionally bila ke pantai, gituuu apsal komen psl komen lynda dan bukannya entry kau yayau?

cik yaya said...

ntah lah.aku pon tak tau hudau.kahkah.pastu ni kalau dah mula memang tak boleh berhenti kan..belom ada mus ngn nawal lagi.hazabb komen aku ni.kahhh

Mak Beruang said...

sometimes, people judge you negatively cause they are either jealous of you, or you do suck.i dont mind being judged negatively,it doesnt matter what people think of me, it's what I think of myself. If people say im black, but i think of myself as beautiful, then Im beautiful. And i'll feel confident and people will take you as someone who has confidence.

they'll say "Oh my Gosh people say she's such a bitch but Nawal is actually the sweetest girl I've ever met!"

gitu hahahaha.

And when you joke with your friend on how she's fat or dark skinned, you're not really being mean. Beramah mesra gitu . hahahaha.

macam

"Yaya, kalau kau hilang 10kg baru aku ksi baju free. Kalau tak buruk nanti kau pakai. Tak sesuai sangat"

see? haha k bai

cik yaya said...

kenapa aku rasa koemn korang tak related dgn entry ni.ada la related sket tp mostly ke lautttt..aku block jgk karanggggg kahhh

fyi, aku dah lost 12kgs tapi aku gained 20kg during pregnancy.YIKES! *pengsan* indah sunggoh 9bln mengandung tanpa morning sickness.kahkah

Moose said...

jeng jeng jeng, aku muncul! haha. tetibe bajet demi god la tu kan? hak ptuih.

i agree with nawal, don't sweat much on what people think of you. macam peribahasa melayu cakap, mulut tempayan boleh ditutup, mulut orang tak boleh. tambah2 mulut puaka. eh? orang yang terlalu fikir apa orang kata ni adalah orang yang insecure, ko tauhu?

confident comes from within and not from branded stuffs you put on, and the fake smile and fake generosity that you show to people.

Mak Beruang said...

fake generosity!ting!5 points for moose the loose!anda menang tiket percuma ke bali bersama 10 lagi pengikut !gitu

hazlynda kushairi said...

YAYAU, AAK nak block ke kepung ke catu ke ape ke, ai tak kisah uolls!

cik yaya said...

muszzz: Yes indeed! and a competent and self-confident person is incapable of jealousy in anything.jealousy is invariably a symptom of neurotic insecurity.tak pon symptom middle age lah kot.tiba

nawal lagi:bali bali.10org tu.mus mesti taknak bwk aku, aku je dah bertiga.kahkah

lynda:ko ni mmg lah konpem gila tau.ko nak catu apa ni?catu makanan nak suh aku kurus letew.kahkah

hazlynda kushairi said...

ai tak suruh u catu makanan la laling, ai suruh u catu mulut u dgn kawan² u. AAK?

Mak Beruang said...

tah naik ke gaji kalau kena maki pon.eh?apa kaitan?

kla aku kasi hadiah lainla.kasi whitening lotion nak?biar mak mertua sayang sikit.mana tau kot nanti mak mertua sayang kasi adiah kawen bunglow sbijik.besau gtu.

cik yaya said...

lynda gila:ko kenpa rempit sgt ni.laling2, ko pelat ke apa ni?martabatkan bahasa lahh.ko jgn lynda..kang aku bg link entry ko sdri kang.kahkah

care bear:haa ni satu lagi.apa lah kaitan woi.HAHA.masalahnya aku ni baru dapat increment ni.kahhh.tu maki belakang,kalau maki depan tak tahu lah aku dapat bpe bulan bonus.PANG!

Nurulhuda|Adlie said...

naik wei gaji kalau maki, lagi2 kalau maki sambil menaip, boss tgk rajin gile staff aku, up bonus! padahal, haha

ape ke serius sgt nawal ngan mus ni, mls la aku nak fikir apa maksudnya korang ni, lgpun ce tulis bahasa rempit xpun bahasa keta modified ke kan aku paham la, ahahhahaha